Lingerie – Your secret weapon

Photo by Janet Goulden

Your boyfriend/husband will be in his own personal heaven-on-earth if he knows that his girlfriend/wife’s special assets are covered in pretty packaging. For him, it will be like opening a present every day and for you… well your efforts will be rewarded. Wear sexy lingerie on regular basis and you will notice your other half hanging around a lot more often, in hope of catching a glimpse of your undergarments. You will have total control over him!

Dressing up for a partner is great, but wearing lingerie doesn’t have to be something you do only for someone else. Wearing lingerie is a good way to make you feel good about yourself too. Lingerie is a simple necessity in life… You do not need an excuse to wear sexy, lacy, beautiful and seductive undergarments! You should wear stunning underwear everyday, no excuses ladies!

Apparently many women, and even more so moms, save wearing lingerie for special occasions like Valentine’s Day, birthdays or anniversaries. It is puzzling though, since nearly all women love wearing utterly decadent and seductive lingerie. Think of how carefully you selected your bridal lingerie.

Starting you day with adorning you body with beautiful lingerie is a sure way to make oneself feel absolutely fabulous, irresistible and sexy… not to mention confident. Lingerie is a naughty secret that you get to wear during the day… it will make you feel sexy, playful and very, very, very pretty. You will find yourself smiling with that naughty smile for no other reason, but the fact that you just feel amazing.

If really think about it, lingerie is an investment. Your undergarments should fit you, compliment your curves and give you lift in all the right places! Since underwear needs to be replaced rather frequently for the hygienic reasons, this gives you a perfect opportunity to try different things every few months!

Maybe you’ve never worn sexy lingerie before and are a little ‘hesitant’ about trying some out. Don’t be. Sexy lingerie comes in a variety of styles and fabrics. You can find lingerie styles that are downright daring- made with see-through and sexually-charged materials such as netting and vinyl. You can find equally sexy, yet less-daring lingerie in such sensuous materials as satin and lace. What’s important is to wear the sexy lingerie you feel most comfortable in. Comfort should not be confused with high-waste cotton numbers that come in the pack of 20 for a special price!

NO NO NO

The key is to be comfortable… without being pinched, squished and tugged in all the wrong places.

Here are 10 tips to owning/wearing lingerie:

1. Push-up bra is an essential item and should be purchased in white/black/beige… “Laugh if you must, but there comes a time in every girl’s life when she needs to display her domes of splendour to their best advantage – weapons of mass distraction, if you like. For ample-bosomed sisters who don’t need a lift, just make sure you have a fabulously decorative bra that functions purely as a show case for your assets” Dion Chang
2. Here is a rule: NEVER EVER EVER wear white bra with black tops… NEVER ladies PLEASE. Even if you think your top is fitting and no one will see your bra, you are wearing. Someone will see it, and yes they will gossip about it (especially if the white has a grey tone to it).
3. Look after your special stuff… take care of your bras. Should your bra strap ever pop out you do not want people seeing a bra that is gross. It will reflect poorly on you! Same goes for your panties… you never know who might get a glimpse of them. Remember that warning from your granny… if you were ever in the accident and needed to be undressed by the medical professionals, would you want them to see your ‘comfy undies’???!!!!
4. Please make sure that your undergarments are ALWAYS UNDER your garments… Even the sexiest g-string will look gross when poking from the top of the pants, as you sit down for coffee… look around your local coffee spot and you will see those “plumbers”.
5. You should always purchase lingerie in the correct size. Professional lingerie shop assistants are able to measure your bust so you can purchase a correct size bra. Not only is this very flattering with your clothes, it is also very important health-wise.
6. The idea with lingerie is to become a Goddess not a trailer park trash queen. Therefore, only a privileged significant other should have the honours of seeing your body in the lingerie… so no flashing ladies… that is very trashy and tacky.
7. Throw away your practical knickers and buy ONLY sexy numbers in variety of styles and colours. Having only fabulous lingerie will mean you can only choose from the available selection each morning. This is will make your mornings fun… opening the draw and seeing all the sexy, lacy, pretty things to choose from… can you see it already?
8. Whilst you are at it, throw away those cosy/practical/cute Pjs and invest into satin and lace sleepwear… La Sensa has a great selection of baby doll varieties that are decadent, pretty and luxurious. Your body will experience heavenly pleasure from being caressed by satin and lace! There are also satin button tops in various styles… and we all know how much men love buttons.
9. Plan your night of seduction… usual favourites are lace-up bodices, suspender belt, high-tights and defiantly high heels. You can go for white, black, and my all time favourite red look… each one will guarantee different but very exciting result.
10. When dressing up in the morning take time to appreciate the way the fabric feels against your body… then put your high heels on and take a look in the mirror- at your beautiful self- and you will see a sex goddess staring back … empowered and in control, ready to take over the world!

Oh and some times… no props are necessary… there are days when wearing absolutely nothing under your clothes will blow you man away…. you know, keep him guessing…!